tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1962472874163319823.post5177255862592497190..comments2022-11-01T06:59:28.431-07:00Comments on New Earth Light: latest advice on twin soulsCarl J. Schroederhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17051319009194913124noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1962472874163319823.post-23763106417133964172014-02-10T08:17:25.517-08:002014-02-10T08:17:25.517-08:00Hi Lauren,
I'm so glad that this blog has he...Hi Lauren, <br /><br />I'm so glad that this blog has helped you. You sound very wise and well on your way to the benefits of having met your twin soul and grown through the experience. It is one of the greatest initiations into divine living on Earth, since it is a fundamental passage back to the Godhead. God created twin souls, and to return to God in consciousness from the twin soul is to return to the God state yourself. You become free to recreate your life going forward again, including meeting a most suitable mate with whom you can plan the twin soul experience. I know because I have met someone compatible now with whom I share many lifetimes, and being no longer the helpless romantic but rather the designer of my own relationships, I can grow forward in more love than my twin soul and I could manifest. So remember, there is always always more hope and healing in life to enjoy. Nothing ever ends for the one who is willing to be eternal in the divine journey of endless love.<br /><br />best wishes,<br />Carl Schroeder<br /><br />ps - sorry for the late reply, been busy with life but always praying for all the people who have found some comfort with this blog and my views on the twin soul topic. More people contact me on this issue than any other, so I clearly have to keep it as a centerpiece of my spiritual teachings and the workshops I will give someday!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15083185809040273031noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1962472874163319823.post-81067474602335868532013-12-24T11:58:26.395-08:002013-12-24T11:58:26.395-08:00Dear Carl and other readers,
Finding this blog an...Dear Carl and other readers,<br /><br />Finding this blog and thread was an answer to prayer for me last night. My ex, who I can now see with great clarity was my twin soul (though I wasn't aware of this at first), took his life three weeks after I broke up with him, on October 2nd.<br /><br />It had been one year we were together, and by far the most intense relationship I've ever had. There was the instant recognition/connection- I even completed his name for him when he introduced himself!<br /><br />Like your twin, Carl, he had experienced a great deal of trauma with many others along his path. He was 16 years older than me and had lived through abuses, estrangement from children, financial/legal entanglements, unemployment, depression and addiction. As you can imagine, these conditions made it very difficult to sustain a stable relationship. We broke up and reunited a couple times before the ultimate ending.<br /><br />While I'd never felt such a deep and total attraction, such a pure and beautiful bond in my life, I felt forced to part ways-to protect my own health, and give him the space he needed to learn to heal his addiction and sense of dependency on me. When I ended it the last time, little did I know that that would close to door to any physical reconciliation between us in this life time. <br /><br />I have memories of at least 2-3 past lives of us attempting to be life partners and something coming between us. <br /><br />I have been dealing with a profound sense of loss, emptiness, grief, guilt and remorse. I've been processing it as best as I can, but I too have felt like part of me is gone. I feel my heart also crossed over. I've had feelings of no longer wanting to continue this life- a strong desire to follow him wherever he went and be in the form he is in.<br /><br />I'm intrigued to learn that chakras can cease to function/disappear, and then regrow? I'd love to learn more about this. I started smoking after his death. I believe it was meant to suppress whatever was happening with my heart chakra.<br /><br />I was given the blessing of being able to make contact with him through two gifted medium/shaman friends. I know that our communication, and more importantly, our work together continues, though we're in different forms now. <br /><br />But I still had unanswered questions and uncertainties haunting me- such as why his presence recently became more distant, and would I ever be able to partner with another here again?<br /><br />Now that I've read these posts on soulmates/twin souls/twin flames, I have much greater understanding of what's happened. It gives me great comfort to know of others who are also going through such a life-transforming experience- that not many can understand the full significance of.<br /><br />I know this experience has been a major turning point in my life, forcing me much deeper inside than I've even gone before. It's made me question why I'm still here and what I can do to make my life as meaningful as possible in order to have the strength and will to go on. <br /><br />In his passing I've grown acutely aware of our ability to communicate with spirit, as well as the profound transformations that so many are going through in this time on Earth. I read somewhere recently that in this life we are experiencing many lives in one. I have often felt I've had at least a few lifetimes compressed into this one. Now is the beginning of yet another.<br /><br />These posts have given me great peace that we'll always be united (moreso than with anyone else), whether we are in different forms or have different partners along the way. Do you think with twin souls, that as soon as both are on the other side they are one again?<br /><br />This dialogue has also put hope in my heart that I can still find companionship with another here on this plane, in this life- one that can be in many ways even more satisfying and comforting- without it taking away from what I had with my twin soul.<br /><br />I can't thank you enough for all of your contributions to this conversation.<br /><br />Blessings, <br />love and evolution. :)<br /><br />LaurenTheStarXVIIhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00606328511096703580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1962472874163319823.post-11318421750276732582013-07-07T20:26:50.400-07:002013-07-07T20:26:50.400-07:00More words of such deep experience, thank you! I e...More words of such deep experience, thank you! I especially liked your statement: "It was as if his rejection pushed me further and further into myself so I would ultimately learn to love myself." Congratulations on learning to love yourself more!<br /><br />I question the part where you say he rejected you because you had caused him so much pain previously - perhaps, but more likely you've always loved him deeply as the profoundly spiritual person you are, and it's pain from others that made it hard for him to face his vulnerability with you. At any rate, that's what I found with my twin soul, she had traumas from others that made her need space from me and healing I couldn't give. Sad but true, and she's doing great on her own without me.<br /><br />Everytime our connection comes up, I process it a little more, for a little more clarity and healing. The fact is that I'm very grateful, she was wonderful for what she offered, which was a chance to help each other awaken and then go on to live separate lives. She never said she wanted to be a lasting couple, and it was my refusal to accept her choice and path that caused me so much pain. She always made it clear that for her own reasons, she needed and wanted to develop her own career and identity apart from me, so we were just intersecting life paths for a while. She said over and over that I needed to be more complete in myself, not rely on her, and learn to do for myself whatever I was counting on from her. Her ending of our relationship forced me to accomplish this and I'm better for it, because she was not the perfect partner for me to develop all the skills I wanted to grow. I was the partner I needed, as well as many other supportive relationships I have opened to since without her. <br /><br />So in summary, we all need to receive exactly the gifts that people actually bring to us, not what we might have wished for. It will hurt until we do, and this just goes that much deeper for the twin soul effect.<br /><br />Carl J. Schroederhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17051319009194913124noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1962472874163319823.post-1692290782272615972013-07-07T19:12:23.310-07:002013-07-07T19:12:23.310-07:00Thank you for your thoughtful response, Carl. It&#...Thank you for your thoughtful response, Carl. It's so wonderful to see you posting about your personal experience. The people who have survived and are surviving these intense connections need to get the information out there to help others. <br /><br />These connections are not regular relationships, and they don't follow the same rules. I knew the intensity of my Twin Soul connection before we even got romantically involved. I felt my soul bond with his from across the room at a party when we were only acquaintances. To try to explain that to somebody, they would think you were insane. Only spiritually open people understand these connections and what they mean. <br /><br />I stopped discussing this connection with my friends/family a while ago. I sat in silence, because nobody had any clue what I was dealing with. I was only with this person for three months before we had a fight and never spoke again. The people around me had no idea the powerful love I felt, that never seemed to dissipate, no matter how much I tried to forget about him.<br /><br />I reached out a few times to get him to talk to me, and he refused. Spirit told me that he closed his eyes because he didn't want to see. He had felt too much pain that I had caused him in this lifetime, as well as past lifetimes. He couldn't bear the pain any longer. <br /><br />The deeper I felt the rejection, the deeper the pain, and ultimately the pain transformed me. It was as if his rejection pushed me further and further into myself so I would ultimately learn to love myself. <br /><br />Only the people who have and are dealing with these connections know how powerful and life-changing these experiences are. <br /><br />The Universe has never stopped showing me signs that my Twin and I are connected, whether he chooses to see it or not. He may not recognize the synchronicity/signs, but I definitely do. They're everywhere. I feel like Alice in Wonderland, and he's the elusive White Rabbit. <br /><br />In the beginning of my journey with him, I questioned whether or not I was crazy for loving him so much, but then I realized my soul gave me no choice. The karma was so intense, that it imprisoned me. I'm currently trying to break the chains. Every day, I get a little closer to breaking through so I can live my life again without feeling bound to him like some kind of karmic prisoner. I'm trying to build a future for myself, but my memories of him keep me stuck in the past. <br /><br />It reminds me of the last line of The Great Gatsby: "So we beat on, boats against the current, borne ceaselessly in the past."<br /><br />For people who are hoping to manifest your Twin, think twice and focus on finding a soul mate instead. Much easier.<br /><br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16173119393643402147noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1962472874163319823.post-25611487438154111482013-07-06T21:50:06.580-07:002013-07-06T21:50:06.580-07:00Thank you too for your sharing. So you know how to...Thank you too for your sharing. So you know how tough it can be, I'm sorry you got so burned. How hard the experience is depends on the free will of the twin soul you're meeting. As human beings their option is to reject us of course, but as the twin soul their rejection can hurt more deeply than they can imagine. And the more we equate them with God and Soul and Love, the more we are injured. I hope you find the path to unhooking yourself from them. Just because they took us deep into our soul doesn't mean they represent the soul's truths or the way things can and will be with someone else. Find those like you who can go as deep as you went without leaving your side, the difference will be worth it. Good luck and love bless!Carl J. Schroederhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17051319009194913124noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1962472874163319823.post-79198783942927951152013-07-06T21:18:28.626-07:002013-07-06T21:18:28.626-07:00Thank you for posting this, Carl. Having experienc...Thank you for posting this, Carl. Having experienced the Twin Soul journey first hand, I can say it's one of the most powerful, beautiful, absolutely soul-wrenching, and devastating things a person can go through. I can't believe I even survived it when I think back to the level of pain and ultimate healing I encountered. I would honestly not wish this connection on their worst enemy. With pain comes transformation, but at what price? The longing and the pull during the first year of the separation almost killed me. I had to see a shamanic healer because I felt like my soul was dying. She did a soul retrieval on me, which helped, but I seriously wanted to die, but I would never take my own life. The emotional and soul pain was so intense, I didn't think I could take it. It's been almost two years, and the thought of opening myself up emotionally to somebody makes me sick to my stomach. When I manifested my Twin Soul, I didn't even know what it was. I was just hoping for a soul mate to settle down with. I never wanted what I got. In a sense, I feel ruined by it. I get the whole purpose of it, and I know what it does each twin, but in my opinion, it's more of a curse, less a blessing. Soul mate relationships are challenging enough. From what I've seen online, reading different people's experiences, Twin Soul relationships are impossible. Show me one happy ending where two twins can make it work and co-create. There are none.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16173119393643402147noreply@blogger.com